"Take the long view: to think about the effects that
something will have in the future instead of in the present. " http://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/take-the-long-view
Identifying and embracing your family's long view (how your family wants to live EVEN when times
are tough) helps you live out your values. Your family's long view helps inform
your family how to respond and be proactive in all seasons of life. As parents,
taking the long view is an important family philosophy AND life skill to
cultivate.
Stephen Covey, author of international best seller, The 7
Habits of Highly Effective People, urges us to “be proactive” and to “begin
with the end in mind”, (Habits One and Two) – which is key to taking the long
view. Being proactive means you create and strive to live by a
plan of action that you adjust as you move through your day, week, month and
year. Beginning with the end in mind means you have an idea or a picture of where
you want to go. Otherwise, as Dr. David
Campbell wisely covers in his book of the same title, “If you don’t know where
you’re going, you’ll probably end up somewhere else”.
I recently had the pleasure talking with Carol Graham, as a
guest on her internationally famous podcast, Never Ever Give Up Hope. In it, I shared some of the incredibly
difficult season of our lives, where for my family, taking the long view was
the way we made it through my son's life threatening accident and healing. We all
had to keep the long view in mind as we navigated hospitals and the
long road of various therapies and miraculous recovery . The blessing and good news is through recovery
and some major adaptation, we continued to focus on the long view for our family
and recently celebrated a significant milestone because of it.
Listen to me talk about our struggles and triumphs through
my son’s near fatal car accident and recovery here:
Every family walks a different path, and every family can
cultivate a long view to help them grow strong and be strong in all seasons of
life.
That is my passion—to help families flourish as they take
the long view.
Use this great tool to design and embrace a long view in your loved ones:
www.finetunedfamilies.com/home/#powerful-vision-tool
www.finetunedfamilies.com/home/#powerful-vision-tool
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